the child until his seventh year, and I care
not who has him afterward.’ But were the
truth of it fully comprehended, the most
vital period in a human’s life would not
be passed by so lightly. Children reflect in
their plays the impressions they receive, no
matter where and of what kind. To illustrate:
William always wants to play policeman,
so he can arrest his father who gets drunk.
One little fellow who was playing ‘horse’
with another boy, drew the lines, meaning
for the horse to stop; in addition to this hint
he added an oath. The teacher, overhearing
this, went across the room and said: ‘You
do not have to say those ugly words, the
horse will stop without them.’ The child
replied, ‘That is what his mother said to
him when she wanted him to quit doing
anything.’ If it were fully realized by people
who call themselves thinking people, that
the first years of a child’s life is the most
impressionable age, what would or could
hinder them from doing all in their power
to make these years count for good, both to
the child and to the community, by making
it possible to have the training which a
Kindergarten affords. By taking hold of
these children at the age of two years and
a half, and having them three years, it is
almost safe to say, unless its environment
after this time is unusual in the wrong
direction, these same children will have
formed many good and useful habits of mind
and body that will assist them toward right
conduct and living. It is very interesting and
strikingly encouraging to note the change in
the children of this particular little school.
Many of their mothers have voluntarily
come to the principal and expressed
themselves gratified with the training
afforded, and in some cases have consulted
as to methods of discipline to use at home
with the children. The comradeship existing
now between these little folks, and which
was so woefully lacking in the beginning,
is a very noticeable feature. Unselfishness
has taken the place of selfishness, courtesy
the place of rudeness, and now it is the
exception to have one child strike another.
The older ones are lovely in their help of the
younger children, assisting them in putting
on wraps, carrying their chairs or doing any
little service in their power. The daily work
in the Kindergarten is not haphazard by any
means, but is carefully planned and based
upon some fundamental law or principle of
vital interest to the child. The thought chosen
is brought to the child’s understanding in
many and various ways, and everything is
done to assist him in expressing this thought.
Thus, the songs, games, stories and table
work are all selected to this end. Along
with a physical and moral development is
seen much improvement in habits of mind
which show themselves in ability to think
and reason and to act at the proper time.
Every human being, regardless of position
or birth, is at least in the susceptible age
of childhood, but justly entitled to the
environment and opportunities which are
essential to the development of nobility
of character, and those who fail for the
want of them can not be severely censured
for their shortcomings. We as individuals
may not be personally responsible for the
conditions which withhold from tens of
thousands of tomorrow’s men and women
the requirements to produce the highest
standard of manhood and womanhood;
but are we not, as individuals personally
responsible for the institution the purpose
of which is to eliminate these conditions
and give to every child that care in training
which is absolutely necessary to the
development of its higher self?
17
The sewing school was organized
in April 1902 by the Young Ladies’
Mission of St. John’s Church with six
teachers and twenty-five pupils. Lessons
were conducted until summer, when the
school closed during the hot months.
In October, the school was reorganized
under the management of The Board of
City Missions under a committee led
by Mrs. Sloan. In the school practical
sewing arts were taught to the girls.
Mothers’ Prayer Meetings were
instituted in August 1902 as a way
of not only reaching the mothers in
the neighborhood, but as a way of
interaction between the members of the
Methodist auxiliaries involved in the
Mission and those mothers in the area of
Kingdom House.
In 1903, Miss Mattie Wright
came to work at Sloan Mission in the
official capacity of Deaconess of the
Methodist Episcopal Church South. The
establishment of the order of deaconess
in the M.E. Church, South is traced to
the resolutions adopted by the St. Louis
Board of Church Extension and City
Missions. In 1901, the Board asked the
St. Louis Annual Conference to ask the
General Conference to establish such
an order. This was done by the General
Conference in May 1902. Mattie Wright
was the first to complete the training
and be ordained a deaconess. She
would be thrilled to know deaconesses
are still a vital part of the Methodist
Church’s twenty-first century ministry.
In the
Second Annual Report of the
Women’s Board,
Wright described her
responsibilities:
The duties of a deaconess, as outlined
by the Committee of Control, are –‘Ministry
to the poor, caring for the sick, providing
for the orphan, comforting the sorrowing,
seeking the wandering and sinful and any
C
hapter
O
ne
:
B
eginnings
(1902-1927)
9
“I
will
come
at once
.
L
ook
for
a
little old
maid
in
a
brown
suit
carrying
a
straw
suitcase
.”
– M
attie
W
right
(I
n
reply
to her
call
to
service
at
S
loan
M
ission
).